Friday, April 18, 2008
Yeesh... I let this challenge get away from me
I went from my peak of about 20k points ahead of schedule...to about 45k behind schedule.
There have been plenty of distractions and reasons for the decrease in play, but in the end, I have the time and ability and have not been using it. I have also deviated pretty far from the original plan, and it will need to be revamped.
APRIL
To be on pace by the end of April, I would need to have about 333k VPPs by the end of the 30th. This would require ~10h per day for the rest of the month, which definitely cannot fit in my schedule.
My target for the end of April will be 300k points, which requires ~6h per day. This is definitely within my means, and I am confident I can reach it. This would also put me in great position to get back ahead of schedule in May...
MAY
If I begin may with 300k points, and if PokerStars follows through with the double point promotion, I will almost definitely be back ahead of schedule by the end of the month.
In the end, it all boils down to whether or not I can maintain my focus. I know I have the ability. I know I have the time. I just need to use them.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Vancouver Trip - Day 5
Our plan for the day was to bike to the Capilano Suspension Bridge - but luckily we found out that it was a good 15 mile bike up a hill before we went to the rental store. Instead, we took the SeaBus to North Vancouver, and took a bus from there to Capilano. Public transportation in Vancouver is extremely reasonable as far as pricing goes. Interestingly enough, they dont even have a place to check your tickets on the SeaBus. Seems like it would be pretty easy to just walk through and get on without paying.
The Capilano Suspension Bridge was very fun. We took some good pictures, which I'll be able to upload as soon as we're home. I also bought a pretty sweet hoodie for myself as a souvenir, which is good because I don't usually buy too many souvenirs.
We got on the bus going the wrong direction as we were leaving Capilano. We were planning to get back on the SeaBus, but it brought us up to Grousse Mountain. We just shrugged it off and figured we just need to sit on the bus until it turns back to the SeaBus. It wasnt until we had already turned around that we realized that Grousse Mountain would have been pretty sweet and we should have just rolled with it. Ah well - something to see next time.
We went to a British Pub called Chester Cheese's for lunch. Sampled a few more local brews, and this big 500ml bottle of "Monty Python's Holy Grail", all of which were excellent. We shopped a bit before getting on the SeaBus to return to greater Vancouver.
This will need to be a 2-part blog, because the battery is running down on the laptop and I will need to turn it off soon. So until next time...
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Vancouver Trip - Day 4
After the coffee shop, we headed to the Vancouver Art Gallery, or VAG. The VAG was very unique in the way it was set up. The lower level was completely dedicated to early photography from different regions. Mostly from about 1890-1920. The second floor was dedicated to trees, and their role in art. Tree-art is especially prominant in Canada, and this was probably my favorite floor in the VAG. The third floor was extremely unique. It was divided into 2 sections. Each section had dozens of televisions set up, all playing interviews from people from the same "utopian" city. The exhibit was designed to highlight the argument that utopia is different to each individual, even if they are all living in the same utopian city.
After the VAG, we returned to the area near the New Amsterdam Cafe, where they have an upstairs Vapor Lounge. In the Vapor Lounge, you just pay 5$ and sit around a table that has a Volcano Vaporizor on it. You pack the vaporizer, it inflates a huge bag, and you pass it around. Oddly enough, we were probably amongst the oldest people in the room. We chilled there for an hour or so, and then walked back to our hotel to relax before dinner.
Dinner was truly the highlight of this vacation day. We walked along the seawall to a restaurant called Cardero's. We had been looking forward to some good west-coast fish since before our vacation even started. I ordered the West Coast Salmon, which was the house special. Mary had the Halibut, which had just come into season. Both meals were absolutely amazing - I really can not say which I liked more.
To compliment our great seafood, Cardero's also had a variety of local brews on tap. I can't remember the names, but we each had 1 light lager and 1 medium cream beer. All 4 beers were excellent, and went very well with the fish.
Cardero's is definitely among my top 5 meals of all time. The service was quick and polite without being too in-your-face. The food was easily a 9+/10. The beer was a 9+/10. I would reommend this restaurant to anybody in the Vancouver area.
Only 2 full days of vacation left! We will be cramming in the Capilano Suspension Bridge, UBC trip, Conservatory, and looking through a few open houses in the next 2 days.
We don't want to leave.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Vancouver Trip - Day 3
We decided to go to the Aquarium today, which was only about a 2-3mile walk from our hotel. I guess everybody else had the great idea of going to the Aquarium on Easter Sunday, because that place was extremely crowded. It was still a very good time, and we were both glad we had lifted our spirits shortly before entering. That really made handling the crowd of tourists much easier.
After going through the Aquarium, we walked back into town, and went to a Mongolian BBQ for lunch. I've got to say it was pretty relieving to have a 7$/person meal as opposed to 15-25. The food was exactly what you'd suspect a mongolian BBQ to be.
Mary needed some decent walking shoes, so we stopped at a store on our way back to the hotel so she could get some.
Both of us are definitely not used to walking for extended periods of time, because as soon as we were back in our room, we passed out from about 5pm-11pm. There really isn't much to do in Vancouver at 11pm on Easter Sunday, so we spent a few hours watching canadian TV before we fell back asleep
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Vancouver Trip - Day 2
It is also pretty amazing just how many coffee shops a big city really needs. Yesterday morning at Cafe Artigiano, we were facing the outside window, and noticed that there was a coffee shop on all 4 corners of that intersection.
We spent most of the morning doing some light shopping, and further exploring the city. There was a very nice dog park along the water that we wished we could bring Nala to. It is unfortunate that we don't have any kind of off-leash dog park in Evansville. Nala could use some practice being loose in public.
We continued walking along the water, and made it about 1/4th of the way around Stanley Park before we decided to return. A bike or rollerblades would make that trek much nicer. We may rent some and explore the park a bit deeper. Hopefully the weather gets a bit nicer before we have to leave.
The plan for today was to go to the Capilano Suspension Bridge, but we'll see how the weather treats us this afternoon. It is very gloomy and has been raining a bit. The weather is actually supposed to stay pretty gloomy until we leave, but we definitely don't want it to be raining when we go to Capilano.
During our walks around the city, we were constantly keeping an eye out for one of the "smoke-friendly bars" that are around the city. We must have walked 6-7 miles without finding what we were looking for. On top of that, our connection did not follow through. We were a bit bummed out by the evening. Luckily, I decided to get on the internet and look up the location of the New Amsterdam Cafe. We were only 6 freaking blocks away from it! And our walks through the city left us less than 1 block away multiple times without ever seeing it!
The NA Cafe is pretty much exactly what you would expect it to be. A pot bar. About 20-30 people sitting around and constantly rolling/smoking joints. Twice on the way to the bar, we heard "need some bud?" from some very sketchy looking characters, and we decided not to buy anything on the street. We were lucky enough to meet a couple college kids at the Cafe who were leaving tomorrow morning, and had more than they needed. They invited us to join them for a little while, and sold us what they had left over. Lucky us. The whole experience was very new and exciting.
We left the Cafe at about 10pm fried out of our minds. A few more homeless-looking guys asked us if we needed some bud, and one definitely-homeless guy said, "Got any bud? I got a lighter!!"
Back at the hotel, we finally indulged in the Jose Quervo we had bought the night before. It did not take long to fall asleep that night.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Vancouver Trip - Day 1
I'm writing this from a corner coffee shop called Cafe Artigiano. The hotel we are staying in is obviously used to catering to businessmen who are only in town for a day or two - because they tried to charge me 16$ PER DAY of internet access. No thanks. Free internet at Cafe Artigiano!
Our flight out of Evansville was supposed to leave at 8:40am, but there was heavy snow in Chicago so we had to take an earlier flight at 6:00am. Everything went pretty smoothly, aside from having to kill about 4 hours in the extremely busy Chicago airport. The Chicago>Seattle flight was about 4.5hours, and the Seattle airport was a breath of fresh air compared to Chicago. Much more calm.
We reached Vancouver at about 5pm, and took a taxi to our hotel. We have a very nice room on the 23rd floor of the Marriot Pinnacle, with a panoramic view of the water, mountains, and city. The room isn't especially big, but we only really plan on "sleeping" and cleaning up there. With a king-sized bed, the room is well equipped for our needs.
For dinner, we went to a resteraunt called "The Keg" which was just a few blocks from our hotel. You'd expect a place called The Keg to have a good beer selection, but their menu didn't even have a beer list. Their highlighted beers were Heineken, Molson, and Coors light... neato. The Keg made up for their small beer selection with some amazing steak. I ordered the largest size, because it was about 4 bucks more and I always enjoy leftovers. This steak must have been 2lbs. I'd estimate it was 2.5-3in thick and cooked evenly. Marbalized fat throughout the cut. The leftovers are sitting in the fridge and will make a great steak sandwich.
We decided to end the night by getting some liquor and relaxing in our room (we had slept about 2 of the last 48 hours). Apparently in Canada, there is some rule restricting the sales of alcohol on Easter Weekend. We probably walked 2 miles and followed 2 sets of bad directions to find a liquor store that was actually open.
Finally, we were about to give up our search, and stopped into a grocery store to get some random supplies for our vacation. We were greeted by a bitch security guard who was probably on her period. She gave us some very blatant attitude, and started making fun of us to one of the cashiers as we were walking away. Luckily for me, Mary didn't put up with her bullshit and called her out while we were paying for our groceries. The cashier was extremely nice, gave us a 50% discount on our groceries, and directions to one of the only open liquor stores in the city! The whole time, that bitch security guard just stood there quietly avoiding eye contact. Thats what you get, you stupid bitch.
Alcohol is about 2x as expensive as it is in the states. After going as far as we had to find alcohol, we felt obligated to follow through, and now we have a 45$ bottle of Jose Quervo.
We finally arrived back at the hotel, and were so tired we couldn't even enjoy the spoils of our journey. Regardless, it was definitely a great experience that we will remember.
I'll be back tomorrow morning with more updates!
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Saturday, March 15, 2008
SNE Quest - March 15: Hard work paying off
I put in 10 hours today, and pulled in nearly 8k VPPs! The first 4 hours threatened to continue my ugly downswing, but I stuck with it and ended the day with a nice profit.
Very satisfying.
I have 5 days before my vacation, and probably will fall a bit short of the 250k goal. If I average about 8h/day for the next 5 days, I'll still be around 245-250, which I am fine with. I'll have 4 more work days after the vacation is over, and as long as I am over 250k by the end of the month, I'll still be ahead of pace.
Friday, March 14, 2008
SNE Quest - March 14: Ouch
Well, my motivation has been fairly low this past week, and have been running absolutely terribly.
On March 12th, I had a session that lasted exactly 1 hand.
I was loading up my tables, and after about 5 tables were up I got my first hand. Pocket aces in the big blind. There was a raise and re-raise preflop. Long story short, I lose a 400$ pot to QJs. Session over.
Yesterday, I finally toughed it out and put in 9 solid hours of play. Nearly 14k hands. Unfortunately, I had a huge downswing and felt like crap all day. On the other hand, I did clear over 6.5k VPPs and unlocked my 2000$ milestone bonus.
So I'm currently in the middle of a ~10-15 buyin downswing and pretty pissed at poker. I am not able to take a break either. I'm still about 12k points ahead of schedule, but with my Vancouver trip on the way, I've got to average about 6 hours per day for the next week. No time to grieve over a downswing.
1 week until I go to Vancouver!
Monday, March 10, 2008
Saturday, March 08, 2008
SNE QUEST - March 8: It has been a while
Well it has been quite some time since I've updated my blog. I've been fairly lazy about my poker play. I took March 1st off, but went back to work the 2nd-5th. I also took the 6th and 7th off. I definitely could have put in 4-6 hours each of these days, but just didn't want to at the time.
Today was my first losing day of the month. I had some pretty major winning days earlier in the month, and was pretty much expecting a downswing some time soon. I'm still doing great for the month, and still have a solid lead on the pace for SNE. On-pace right now is about 185k, and I'm at 205, so I'm fairly comfortable.
I'd like a 25k cushion before my vacation.
It was warm outside for a few days in a row, and we were pretty hopeful that winter was finally over... nope. The weather got crappy some time around the 6th, which is also the first day I just didn't feel like working. I think I'm seeing a pattern.
I do need to get better at posting regularly, but this is pretty normal for me. As long as I'm writing something once a week, I don't think the blog will die out.
Until next time
Sunday, March 02, 2008
SNE FEBRUARY
Hands: 148859
VPPS: 187795
February started out pretty slow, but ended strong. I have definitely honed my game even more, and learned a few more tricks that will up my hourly rate and help me reach SNE.
SHORTSTACKING
I put in about 80k hands at 6max this month. I ended up with a very nice hourly rate, and a good VPP rate. It also gives pretty much 0 satisfaction and does very little to further your game. Plus, everybody hates you. If something comes up and I cannot cut it at the full ring tables, I would fall back on this. Otherwise, you wont be seeing me shorting much any more.
24-TABLING
Just when I thought I wouldn't play more than 18 tables, I upped my max again. I'm really happy with my ability to maintain my solid game while playing all of these tables. This upped my VPP rate, and I'll probably be doing it for the rest of the year.
LEAP DAY
PokerStars did a double VPP promotion on Leap Day, and did not give much notice. I learned about it at about 7am on the day of. As soon as I learned, I decided to devote the entire day to earning as many VPPs as possible. After 13 hours of play, I put in over 20k hands, and earned over 18k VPPs before the 24h period was up. This was a tremendous boost to my quest, and gave me some much needed cushion. I'll be going to Vancouver in less than 3 weeks, and would like to have at least a 20k point cushion - which I do!
CONCIERGE
I already purchased my Vancouver trip via concierge, and in the next week or so, I think I'll be doing the same for my Maui Honeymoon in September. I've been working up some major FPPs lately. At the end of April, I should have the FPPs to cover the wedding as well :)
Not the best month, but still a very very good one.
Now in March, I have 3 weeks to make 4 weeks worth of profit. Bring it on.
Monday, February 25, 2008
SNE Quest - Feb 25: An odd week
I've been slacking on my blog posts, and have skipped a few pretty significant poker days.
I had an extremely large upswing on Thursday, making my second largest cash day ever.
Unfortunately, the following Friday and Saturday took away about 3/4ths of that.
I'm getting pretty sick of short-stacking. In the long run my hourly still is higher than when I play my normal game, but my normal game is more satisfying.
So today, I put in a session of 24-tabling full-ring NL. 200 and 400 buyin tables only. To make up for the lack of screen space, I switched to cascaded tables instead of tiled. This caused a surprising change in my play. The way the tables are laid out when cascaded, they are overlapping, and pop up when you need to make a decision. This way, I am not using the automatic "check-fold" boxes so habitually.
My stats went from a super-nitty 13/11 to a solid 16/13. I was very happy with my ability to play more tables, and possibly taking advantage of some more mediocre spots that I overlook when I play my normal 18-table tiled setting.
Unfortunately, I ran like hell. Just one of those days where you can't win nomatter how well you play. By the end of the day, my AA, KK, and JJ hands had lost for me overall. Not very easy to overcome an ugly run like that. Despite the bad streak, I continued to maintain my 16/13 style over 24 tables - resulting in about 25% more hands per hour.
Despite running like hell, I'm somewhat looking forward to playing tomorrow. Every time I mix my game up, it boosts my motivation for a while. 24-tabling is a nice mix up.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
SNE Quest - FEB 20: On an upswing
I've put in quite a few hands these past few days. The results have been very nice. I played full ring again this weekend, and did alright. When I returned to 6max, I went on a massive heater. This strategy of only full-stacking the good tables is absolutely great. It will probably take a month or so before I know my true hourly, but I am almost certain it is higher than I can get playing full-ring games.
I used the concierge service for the first time ever, and purchased the tickets for our Vancouver trip. Concierge was very quick and easy. I will be using this service frequently throughout the year.
In other news, ING Direct does not accept international wire transfers, and a chunk of my money is currently lost in space. Tied up since 2/2. Yuck.
Monday, February 18, 2008
Creepy Waiter
Mary and I had an Olive Garden gift card from who-knows-when, and we decided to go out to dinner and use it tonight. After someone gave us the finger for jacking his parking spot, we took our seat and started to decide on our order. Our waiter, Joe, came up to the table, offered us a sample of wine, etc. He had a bit of a speech impediment, but nothing too out of the ordinary.
After taking our drink orders, he started talking to us about how he was the writer for many of the Hannah Montana songs... yup. He walked away, and we all just assumed maybe he was an intern or something. Maybe he had something to do with the production of the songs, who knows. He was working at the Olive Garden, after all.
Joe returns to the table, and continues talking about how he wrote the Hannah Montana (Miley Cyrus?) songs, and that he doesn't get any royalties for whatever stupid reason. He also told us that when Billy Ray Cyrus came to town, he went up and talked to him about how its funny that his daughter is more famous than him... And that Miley Cyrus was there, and he gave her hell about not being able to hit a high F note. He was very obviously full of shit, but whatever. I don't give half a damn about Hannah Montana and if he wants to fantasize about writing her songs, who cares.
He asked me what I did for a living, and I told him that I play poker. Instantly, he started talking about how he used to be a Magician down in Atlantic City, and that he could count cards at blackjack. Oh, and he was friends with David Copperfield.
I'll try to recreate this next quote as best I can: "So yeah, when you have a 16, you have 40 to 1 odds to win. But when you have a 17, you're 60 to 1 odds to lose."
I laughed and responded "Dude, that doesn't make any sense at all."
He said "Yes it does!" and walked away.
After he returned, Mary asked him if he would do a magic trick for us. He said that his manager wouldn't let him do tricks any more...but he would do one for us anyway. He picked up a nickel, had me hold out my hand, and told me to catch the nickel when he dropped it. He then tossed the nickel to the floor, pretended to put a nickel in my hand, and stared at me.
"...it's right there"
He said, "Yeah, it works better with chips," and left.
Randomly during the course of the meal, he also let us know that he was 23 years old, had a heart-attack at 18, and lives every day like it's his last.
Maybe this actually did happen, and he recreated his past to be something more glamorous...
Or maybe he was entirely full of shit.
Who knows.
All I know is he had the pedo-smile.
You know the pedo-smile.
Anybody with this creepy fucking smile needs to be kept away from children and small animals.
At least he has Hannah Montana and David Copperfield to keep him company.
Yeesh.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
SNE Quest - FEB 13: A nice heater
Played a solid 6 hours, and had a very nice streak of luck. Currently, this is the best day of the month. Now, my hourly rate is even better than it was in January. However, I've still only logged 42 hours, for 25756 vpps this month.
At the pace I set for myself in January, I should be at about 150k total vpps by the end of Feb 14th. I'll be a bit more than 20k vpps short of this goal. The necessary pace for completing the challenge, though, is about 125k vpps. I will be just slightly above that pace. This basically means that I can't screw around for the rest of this month. I'd like to finish Feb off with 185k+ total vpps.
By the end of this month, I'll also be quickly approaching the special milestone bonuses that come at certain VPP marks during the year. The milestones are as follows:
* $2,000 at 200,000 VPP
* $3,000 at 300,000 VPP
* $4,000 at 400,000 VPP
* $5,000 at 500,000 VPP
* $6,000 at 600,000 VPP
* $8,000 at 800,000 VPP
These will be a MAJOR boost to my motivation. Thus far, I haven't even spent my FPPs, as I've been waiting to book my trips to Vancouver and Maui this year. I'm getting very close to the point that I can buy both of them entirely through the Pokerstars Concierge service. Quite a perk :)
Another little update that I had not noticed until today - PokerStars has altered the tournaments that they send their Supernova Elite players to. Their website now reads:
Option A: Any two packages from PokerStars Caribbean Adventure, WSOP Main Event, EPT Monte Carlo, APPT Sydney.
Option B: Any one of the above packages plus $10,000.
They have added the APPT Sydney(Asian Pacific Poker Tour), and also have added the option of replacing one of the events with 10k cash. I've always wanted to visit Australia, and this would be a great opportunity to do so.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
SNE Quest - Day 41-42: Snow day
Most of the rest of Evansville was stuck in their house, as the road conditions have been terrible these past few days. We are actually trapped in our backyard, because the gates to the fence have frozen to the ground. During poker breaks, it is pretty fun to just stare out the window and watch cars fumble down the street.

I put in about 6 hours yesterday, and 2 the day before. I am still thoroughly enjoying the 6max game, and continue to get ridiculous plays out of the premium tables. Here are a couple funny hands...
http://www.pokerhand.org/?2095470 - OMG OVERPAIR
http://www.pokerhand.org/?2095473 - Gutshot with 1 card to come...NUTS!
Unfortunately, I am still running at about 13/12, which is very very weak-tight for 6max games. I'd love to be about 16/14, but with the # of hands I play, it is more difficult to find those more marginal situations to act on.

I also only have 36 hours logged in February, and I should be around 60-70. February has ALWAYS been a slow month for me, even before I started playing poker. Something about the cold weather I guess slows me down. I'm still doing alright, and am still on pace for SNE, but I definitely can't expect to achieve my goal if i repeat these last couple weeks.

In personal news, Sophy is sick for the first time. She has been in good spirits for the most part, but occasionally has a bad coughing fit which makes it hard to keep down food. Having a sick baby in the house makes just about everything a little more difficult.
Sunday, February 10, 2008
SNE Quest - Day 39-40: Back on track
I've been slacking a bit on the blog, but that does not mean that I've been slacking in poker.
I put in 14 hours in the past 2 days, and had some very solid results.
I've also been playing at the 400$ level and above for this entire time. It is pretty clear that I am ahead of the field, and can probably keep this win rate up long-term. I have 70k hands of 6max in since I started my short-stacking experiment, and my win rate is actually above what I thought it would be. This is largely due to the fact that I am full-stacking the premium tables and short-stacking the bad ones.
I have very high expectations for this style of play. It results in more VPPs/hour, more $/hr, and eventually even more opportunity for profit.
In other news, Leatherass (the guy who hit supernova elite last year, and made 1mil+ in the process) posted his stats for the last 1/2 year. He moved from full ring to 6max last year as well, and this is further encouragement for me to continue pursuing that style.
I went through my "Bartender's Guide" to make a new bitch-drink the other day. A "Georgia Spritzer". Rum, Peach Schnapps, Sprite, Lime. It was just ok. I have pretty much 0 tolerance to liquor, so the drink did its job quickly.
That's it for now!
Thursday, February 07, 2008
SNE Quest - Day 37: BURNOUT
Well I knew it wouldn't be too long before my motivation got stale and I started having trouble pushing myself to put in the necessary hours. Fortunately, I recognized the problem fairly early, and can start working on the solution.
First and foremost - I need to get back on a regular exercise schedule. The first 2 months of January, I ended nearly every session with a ~10min floor routine. This did a very good of "resetting my brain" and getting my mind off of whatever beats/frustration I may have experienced during my time at the tables. This made starting the next session much easier, as well as just being all-around better for me.
Second - I need to start waking up at a regular time every day. I've been fairly good about this, and I am rarely in bed past 9am. Having a ~8am wakeup every day will help a whole lot with...
Third - Putting in a session before 12pm daily will really improve the overall hours I spend playing. Starting the day out right really is half the battle.
Fourth - Eating actual breakfast. Coffee is not breakfast. Even cereal would be better than 2 cups of coffee and occasionally a granola bar.
Putting all of the pieces to this puzzle together, it is becoming increasingly clear why my drive has slowed. Waking up at 9, drinking 2 cups of coffee, and lazing around until 11-12 when I have a caffeine crash is pretty much the worst way to start a productive day.
Caffeine restricts the blood-flow to the brain, and in turn will worsen the poker thought-process.
Exercise, however, increases the blood flow to the brain. On top of this, morning exercise gives your mind "practice" with overall willpower, which is basically the #1 trait needed by poker players.
In theory, this all sounds good. In practice...we'll see how it works out.
I already did a floor-routine this evening, and almost instantly felt better. I was in a pretty major funk this morning.
In SNE news, I put in 1 hour today and it was nothing special. Now that I'm feeling better, I am feeling much better about putting in a few more hours tonight. There may be a Day 37 part 2 up later.
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Wedding Plans
I do consider it an extremely special occasion. I do think it is important for friends and family to be there. I do think it is an occasion that we will remember forever, and should be done the way we want it. But 8k+? I think I speak for most guys when I say "fuck that".
Do weddings with 1000$ cakes and multi-thousand-dollar-dresses produce more successful marriages? Are these things necessary to announce your love for another person? Why are most American marriages so incredibly similar? There is no way that the image of a white blushing bride and her tuxedo-ed groom walking out of a church can be the dream of every person in America. The traditional wedding is a freaking religious ceremony, and a big business.
As the one paying for the occasion, I set a limit to 5k$ for wedding expenses. I honestly thought that it was a pretty generous budget. How ridiculous is it to spend 8k+ on a wedding? Compared to most people in my town, I am pretty damn well off, and I still consider spending 8k+ on a wedding outrageous. I'm too lazy to check the source, but I'm fairly sure the #1 cause of divorce is financial problems. Unaffordable weddings, rings, etc. just seem like a formula for failure...which eventually would lead to another wedding (or 2). And so the American business of marriage and divorce keeps churning. Ok, rant over.
I'm still strongly pushing for a non-traditional wedding. Nice, but modest. Get married. Eat dinner. Get our friends and family wasted. Enjoy the night.
As an interesting side note, we are ordaining Dan Berry (friend, and my namesake) and he will be doing the ceremony. Apparently you can ordain anybody, including animals. I really like this idea :)
